Mdates: The Online Chat and Flirt App for Easy, Friendly Conversation
Chat with women online in a moderated, virtual-only space, right from your phone. Don't wait, start chatting now.
Take the 1-minute quizVirtual chat only. No real-life meetups.
How Mdates Works
Mdates is a moderated online chat and flirt app. You take a short quiz, then chat with chat partners inside the app. Every conversation stays online, with no meetups and no outside contact sharing.
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Take the quiz
Answer a few easy questions so Mdates knows what kind of chat you like.
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Chat with moderated chat partners
Your conversations run inside Mdates, and every chat is moderated.
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Virtual only
Chats stay online. No real-life meetups and no sharing of phone numbers, emails or social handles.
How Much Do Coins Cost on Mdates?
Coin pack prices are shown in the app before you pay. Mdates uses coins, not a monthly subscription. You buy a pack, then spend coins to send messages and interact with profiles.
| What you do | Uses coins? | Where you see the cost |
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| Send a message | Yes | Shown in the app before you pay |
| Interact with a profile | Yes | Shown in the app before you pay |
| Buy a coin pack | No, this adds coins | Pack price shown before you pay |
| Set your budget first. Pick a monthly amount you're comfortable with, check your coin balance often, and stop when you reach it. | ||
Swipe Through Chat Partner Profiles
Swipe to see the kind of profiles you can chat with. Photos are illustrative profile examples.
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Profile example
Chat starter: “Road trip question: mountains or coastline? I'm curious which you'd pick.”
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Profile example
Chat starter: “What classic rock song always gets you singing along in the car?”
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Profile example
Chat starter: “Grilling season is the best season. What's your go-to on the grill?”
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Profile example
Chat starter: “The tomatoes finally came in. Do you garden, or just enjoy the results?”
Say hi and start the quiz to chat about gardening
Privacy, Support and Clear Rules
Mdates keeps its rules simple and out in the open. Here is how privacy, support and refunds work.
Private and discreet
Your chats stay inside Mdates. Phone numbers, emails and social handles are filtered out, so conversations stay private.
Support by email
Have a question about your account or coins? Email the team from the Mdates customer support page.
Refund policy info
Coin purchases and refunds follow the Terms of Service. Support can answer questions about a specific purchase.
iPhone, Android and web
Chat in a standard web browser or in the Mdates mobile app, on your phone, tablet or computer.
Operated by Appogee B.V.
What Reviewers Say, and What We Tell You Up Front
Reviews of Mdates on third-party sites are mostly negative. Here are the common themes, and our plain answer to each.
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Common review theme: Coins can run out faster than expected.
That's why the coin table is right here.
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Common review theme: Some people hoped to meet in person.
Mdates is virtual chat only, and we say so first.
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Common review theme: Support and refunds felt slow.
Email support details are on our contact page.
Mdates vs. Mainstream Dating Apps
Mdates and mainstream dating apps differ in goal, contact rules and how you pay. Mdates is built for online chat, not for planning dates.
| Feature | Mdates | Typical mainstream dating apps |
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| Main goal | Online chat and flirting | Usually meeting in person |
| Real-life meetups | Not part of Mdates | Usually the goal |
| Sharing phone or social contacts | Not allowed in chat | Usually up to you |
| Chats moderated | Yes | Varies |
| How you pay | Coins for chat actions | Often subscriptions |
The bottom line: pick Mdates if you want easy online conversation without the pressure of planning dates.
Frequently Asked Questions
Quick, honest answers about how Mdates works, what coins do and how to get help.
Is Mdates real dating or virtual chat?
Mdates is virtual chat, not real-life dating. It is a moderated online chat and flirt app where you talk with chat partners inside the service. There are no in-person meetups. If you want easy, friendly conversation from home, that is exactly what Mdates is built for.
How much do coins cost on Mdates?
Coin pack prices are shown in the app before you pay. Mdates uses coins instead of a monthly subscription. You buy a pack, then spend coins to send messages and interact with profiles. Set a monthly budget first and check your coin balance often so spending stays predictable.
Can I meet or swap numbers with a chat partner on Mdates?
No. Mdates is virtual-only, so real-life meetups are not part of the service. Chat filters block phone numbers, email addresses and social media handles, so every conversation stays inside Mdates. If you want an in-person date, a different kind of service will suit you better.
Who are the chat partners on Mdates?
Chat partners are part of a moderated chat service. Conversations on Mdates are largely run by professional chat partners and moderators, not by people looking for real relationships. The photos on this page are illustrative profile examples. We say this up front so you know what you are signing up for.
Can I use Mdates on iPhone, Android and the web?
Yes. Mdates works in standard web browsers and through dedicated mobile apps. You can chat from your phone, tablet or computer, whichever feels easiest. Start with the 1-minute quiz, then pick the device you like best for chatting in the evening or on weekends.
How do I get help or ask about a refund?
Email the support team through the Mdates contact and support page. Coin purchases and refunds follow the Terms of Service, and support can explain how they apply to your account. Include your account email and purchase date so the team can find your order.
Don't Wait, Start Chatting Now
Take the quick quiz, see how it works and start a friendly chat tonight. Remember, Mdates is virtual chat only, and you control what you spend.
Take the 1-minute quizIt takes about a minute to get started with the Mdates online chat and flirt app.